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An infidelity is a betrayal, a loss of trust of a love one in a relationship. It is lying or been disloyalty to your partner or lover. Infidelity may be sexual or emotional in nature and typically involves a third person. Infidelity does not necessarily involve physical separation, but can be characterized by emotional detachment as well. Emotional detachment can happen when you lose your partner’s trust or if you lie to your partner or tell them half-truths. Betraying your partner may inflict a deep pain that is difficult to repair and sometimes causes irrevocable damage to the relationship that hastens its end. There are many things that can occur in the wake of an infidelity. If you are married, an infidelity could lead to divorce. If you are in a committed relationship, it could lead to a break up. SO WHAT HAPPENS AFTER INFIDELITY OCCURS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP? There are distinct stages a relationship goes through in the wake of an infidelity. 1. ROLLER COASTER STAGE. This is the stage where strong emotions arise emotions such as anger and self-blame followed by a period of introspection and appreciation of the relationship. Just like it says, your emotions go for a roller coaster ride, up and down, round and round and it’s a bit hard to figure out exactly where or who you are. 2. MORATORIUM STAGE. This stage is a less emotional stage, at least for the person who was cheated upon. In this stage, the person affected tries to make sense of the betrayal. They may ask for more detail about the affair or retreat into themselves or quietly seek help from others regarding the issue. 3. TRUST BUILDING STAGE. This stage takes place when the couple has decided to stay together. During this stage, the couple really tries to make their marriage work. They decide that a continued commitment to their relationship is important and with time, eventually forgiveness and trust can be achieved. After an infidelity occurs, you may still find yourself often doubting your partner. Don’t lose heart, there is hope. People sometimes do learn from their mistake and can change for the better. Here are some signs that may indicate if a person is still worthy of your love. Expresses sincere remorse and regret for cheating on you Heartfelt apologies feel true when you hear them Accepts total blame for his or her betrayal Cuts off all contact with the third party Shows a renewed appreciation, admiration, respect and devotion to only you Displays a willingness and openness to talk about what happened Is willing and eager to go into marriage counseling with you If both of you are willing to participate in a deep, open, and honest conversation regarding your relationship and how you would like it to progress, there is a good chance you will be able to work through your issues. If, on the other hand, your partner is not open to discussing these things with you and not demonstrating any of the possible reconcilement signs listed above, it may be time to cut your losses and get out. Additional signs that it might be time to end the relationship are: your partner seems to be more agitated than usual and seems to emotionally and physically withdraw from you. They may go out alone more often and may be making clandestine phone calls or working late hours. You might even receive anonymous phone calls at the house. If several of these things are occurring, then most probably your partner is cheating on you. If you can find concrete evidence of this infidelity, then it’s probably a good idea to break up. A relationship that is based on lies, lacks trust and lack of commitment is doomed to fail. After an infidelity occurs, be aware of any signs that may indicate your partner's willingness to stay and work it out or clear intention to follow along the path of continued betrayal. Just be careful and pay attention. Make the best decision for you.

At the Annual Independence State Banquet in Antigua and Barbuda, actress Anna Maria Horsford was appointed the country’s tourism ambassador. The award-winning actress and producer took a few days off from filming“Reed Between the Lines”, her latest sitcom project to travel to the destination to accept the prestigious appointment. Horsford was conferred with the appointment by Tourism Minister John Maginley, who also recognised the actress for her successful 40-year career. Horsford thanked the government and people of Antigua and Barbuda for the warm welcome and the recognition and support that she has received over the years. She expressed pride for her Antiguan heritage and described being raised in Harlem by an Antiguan father, entrepreneur Victor Horsford, helped to shape her values and passion. “My father was not a man of many words, but he was firm in setting high standards for his children. He worked extremely hard to provide for his family and was very supportive of other Antiguans who immigrated to New York. He was strict and focused, and I strive to bring this same work ethic to my career. I am here to say that I survived having an Antiguan father,” the new ambassador noted. Horsford, who is best known for her roles as Thelma Frye on the sitcom “Amen”, and security guard Dee on The “Wayans Bros”, became the fifth tourism ambassador to be appointed. The ambassadorship created by the Tourism Ministry to highlight how the “One Family” vision can bring all citizens together to support tourism promotions. Horsford was warmly greeted by attendees at the Independence Banquet. Though most were familiar with her work, many were surprised to hear about her Antiguan roots. The new ambassador is already in discussions with tourism officials about how she can present the destination’s attractions and diverse offerings during her public appearances. She also wants to contribute to the development of the local film industry and is passionate about youth development and empowerment. Horsford was a special guest at Guyana Fashion Weekend 2008 and spokesperson for GFW 2009.

It is now time for hitting the beach and we are here to help you pick and choose some of the best swimwear by our Caribbean Designers. Swimwear exposes the alluring vixen within every woman so take a stroll down the turquoise Caribbean beach in the some of the best Caribbean designers. When it comes to looking your best and feeling your sexiest, choose Caribbean Fashion Swimwear. BANG! by Neil Robinson http://www.bangswimwear.com HIGH TIDE by Cedella Maley MUSHROOM by Brigid & Jason Lawson SHELNIEL by Cassandra Mottley SYIIM by Juanita Reid www.facebook.com/syiim WILD/FREE by Raecine Williams http://www.wildfreewear.com/

Summer is here, and we are scouting the web for the must to must-have colours and designs of the season. These Margo one-shoulder dresses with asymmetrical necklines by BCBG. These dresses give an effortlessly sleek and flattering look on any woman. A captivating contrast of color-blocked detail and a classic, flowing silhouette make this a show stopping style for any special night out.

Kick off the summer in fresh new styles. Let those clogs do the walking. Can’t live without spring and summer sandals, from wedges, platforms, pumps and flats. Get footloose this summer with sassy, hot-on-trend sandals coated in sultry-chic cool. Shoes are always girl’s best friend, next to diamonds. It's going be a great summer with all these fabulous shoes to pick from. These shoes are made for walking

Many women tend to shy away from wearing leggings because they are afraid of getting a camel toe. However, leggings is a good choice you just have to learn how to wear it. Finding the right leggings is easy, just stick to these four rules: Thick, unshiny fabrics like double knits don't show bulges. Layering is crucial. Think of leggings as tights rather than pants; put them under skirts, dresses, or tunics. 3. Leggings can look tacky with the wrong footwear. I prefer flats, boots, or a low heel. 4. Avoid patterned leggings.

A n extraordinary and talented persona within the art arena takes the form of Mr. Richard Rampersad. Born in the sub-urban area of Valsayn, on the 2nd August 1990, Mr. Rampersad possesses a profound wealth of artistic competencies in all spheres. Mr. Ramper-sad is currently a full time practicing artist. He is the recipient of a first class honours degree in Visual Art from the University of the West Indies (U.W.I). In addition, he possesses certified knowledge in Graphic Design at the School of Business and Computer Sci-ence (S.B.C.S) as well as Mehndi (U.W.I). Mr. Rampersad`s thorough exposure to workshops in Puppetry, Painting, Ceramics, Textile Design, Wire bending, Costume making and Stilt walking bombarded him with a melange of artistic abilities that cannot be disputed. Richard Rampersad is indeed a promising, pervasive and all- encompassing artist, whose works merit close watching. The relationship between an image and the reality it purports to represent is, according to many contemporary critics, inherently political. This stems in part from the work of post structuralist theorists, who have identified a connection between images and power. In my exhibition, each piece seems to indicate something specific and contributes meaningfully to my visual language. The highly sophisticated spatial organization, negative space treat-ment and non orthodox idiom in the figure rendering supersede naturalistic accuracy. My artistic expression goes beyond pictorial representation and becomes the affirmation of one whose ontological foundation expresses the will to use the media as a vehicle to convey an idea or narrative. I seek to make advancement in the visual understanding of the figures and in how they may be rendered. This body of work reflects my personal journey in exploring the idea of cleansing. I draw, paint, create and strive to find fulfillment in my ability to translate thoughts and visions on the canvas without words, instead, with the ripeness of colour and texture. The body of work seeks to interrogate the notion of "wash-in to wash-out" and examines the narrative of cleansing. The context of cleansing is not used in its literal sense but in the context of applying symbolic genres and dynamic structures with in which the human experience, meaning and value are stimulated and emerged. Figurative drawing/painting has been a practice since time immemorial. The simple figures inscribed on the walls of prehistoric caves are eloquent testimony that this is an activity that is virtually as old as humankind itself. There is an incredibly amount of diversity in this genre, but plenty of challenges when it comes to painting figures with power and depth. My fascination with the human figure propelled and accounted for the choice of subject matter. More so, the female form. This body of work seeks to utilize the female fig-ure as the main "motif" to illustrate women and the plethora of issues and challenges they are bombarded with, particularly violence. In the conceptualization and execution of this work I thought about the use of media and technique as well as how it can symbolically and meaningfully relate to the idea. Conse-quently, the gesticulations and manner in which paint application methods were manipulated lends itself to the nature of my narrative. The paintings are large, on a scale considerably greater than life size. When one stands in front of them it is possible to feel surrounded and enveloped by the colour and monumental scale. These large scaled-figures are by themselves on each canvas with their heads turned graceful-ly sideways, or blocked from the observer. This bodily posture is emblematic of the afore-mentioned social-ill women are subjected to. As well as representative of how these women are ostracized, alienated and isolated by society. Splashing, bleeding and dripping of paints onto the canvas are a symbolic approach to illustrate and simulate cleansing, i.e. the behav-iour of water while bathing. These techniques were predominately utilized on the background or negative space which carries the same weight as the positive space. The slender dripping effect of paint on the background surmounted by the portrait orientation of the canvases ech-oes the vertical starts of the figures. The results are immense bright, joyful and abstract pat-terns that created a context for the figures. There is indeed a strong awareness of the contrast of tone and always a conspicuous depiction of light, whether subdued or intense. There is the brilliance of colours and tones, shimmering in the vivid finger strokes of the impressionist technique. These graphic statements are capable of speaking very clearly to us about our cur-rent concerns and are a joy to the observer. Colour was used for emotional expression and the direst effect it has on the spectator. Gener-ally speaking, colour directly influences the soul. Colour is the keyboard, the eyes are the hammers, and the soul is the piano with many keys. The artist is the hand that plays touching one key or another purposively to cause vibrations in the soul. The colours used on each pan-el have been orchestrated in harmony as if they were instruments performing in a concert. The paint application method of finger painting was executed to paint the actual figures. This was the chosen technique as it attempts to create a link and dialogue between the finger marks and the physical effects of domestic violence. Predominantly an analogous colour scheme was utilized for the mathematical colour harmony of the compositions, for the monu-mental stillness of the figures and for the limpid clarity of the light that bathes them. Not-withstanding, in some aspects of the composition, there is a delicacy and unity of colour in the handling of paint, and a sense of great simplicity, warmth and directness. The remarkable use of colour adds greatly to the suggestive and symbolic air surrounding the works and as-sists immensely in the beauty, economy and emotional fluency resonated in each piece. In the background of the painting, colour has a more translucent quality and in the foreground it is more opaque.

Machel Sandy a very vibrant and positive person took the opportunity to be interviewed and his excitement grew when I asked him the first question. How it all started? He responded without hesitation by proudly exclaiming his mother is his main influence. Machel as a young boy among a dominantly female home was eager to learn from his mother’s natural gift. He admired his mother’s craft as one of the best wedding seamstress in Guyagagri. His love for fashion budded when he took his mother scraps of cloth and created his own ideas of creation. Apart from his mother his sister was quite active in the fashion and pageant world (Miss Trinidad & Tobago 2000) who also is his role model. It was at that pageant Machel felt motivated after meeting Heater Jones & Peter Elias for the first time. Machel’s first design was constructed at age 13 for his cousin’s graduation. Thereafter he added his designs to his village Emancipation shows, Cari Vogue. It was not long after he became passionate about designing for pageants which out of four pageants he captured three best evening gowns. Machel got so excited talking about his journey he said the audience reaction to his pieces is what motivates him. At this time Cari Vogue showed a tremendous amount of interest in him and offered him the opportunity to go to London to train him. His options were thin he had no choice but to finish secondary school. One of his disadvantages was the stigma as a young male designer. It added some peer pressure but Machel boldly past that phase without being discouraged. His education is a priority he is presently finishing his Business degree at the University of the Southern Caribbean. In 2006 La Revier was the talk of the season; his anticipation was taking a very positive turn in his life. It was his first national showing of his work, at this point he was competing against top local designers. Swimwear by: Machel Sandy Social media became the new marketing tool for Machel which actually was like a re-birth to his vision. It was time to give a name to his brand. Fascinated with Japanese culture Masheru was an abstract combination of Machel and Japanese. Now working out of Sande Grande, he describes his designs as urban chic” cross between urban & couture. His bathing suits line delivers a beautiful fuchsia array of colours with deep and daring cuts. Mr Sandy is seemingly the wonders of fashion he not only culminates the talent of designing he also can do make-up artistry, hair stylist and the Managing Director of modelling agency Image Caribe’. Machel felt if he did not attempt his passion he would have living his life full of regrets. He has worked local photographers such as: Sancho Francisco, Randy Paradox, International photographer - Lang Xiao of LX Studio Machel admires local designer Peter Elias and international designers such as Alexander mac Queen, Roberto Cavali and Heatherette. Machel currently produce every Fridays at a popular spot downtown Port-of –Spain Trinidad themed type fashion shows called Elite Fridays. His advice to young upcoming fashion designers is to “be you no matter what” Don’t allow people to break your spirit.

This is Santa Claus is coming to town with gifts for your mother or father, husband, wife or kids. Check our Holiday Gift Guide that will make buying gifts easier. Gift-wrap hats, gloves and scarves. Shopping for other must-haves for the woman in your life? A handbag is always in style. If you're planning a date night, give her a wristlet or a clutch. Fragrance Gift Set for Her CHRISTMAS GIFTS FOR MEN In the market for holiday gifts for the man in your life? He won't be able to resist soft pajamas or robes and these comfy slippers when he's at home. A wallet or business case or a duffle bag will send him off in style How about some Tech accessories and gadgets CHRISTMAS GIFTS FOR KIDS Whether shopping for girls, boys or babies, the perfect holiday gifts for awaits GIFTS FOR TEENAGERS For HIM For HER She will love new shoes and accessories. why not add rings, earrings and necklaces to her jewelry collection this year? Toys

Winter is in and CEM is taking a look of some of our favourite top season’s trend in handbags and shoes. Staying stylish this season with these accessories will take you from fall to winter, from versatile booties and pumps Winter Is full of colour and swag. If you are in the Caribbean pairing ankle length booty with skirts, short dresses, shorts, and suits will give a flirty and chunky look when you step out.

Divya Sieudarsan was crowned Miss Guyana India Worldwide 2014 at the New Thriving Banquet Hall on Tuesday (May 6th). The 25 year old will represent Guyana at the Miss India Worldwide Pageant in Dubai this June. Photo: Hotspotgy ....................................................................................................................................Copyright 2014 Caribbean E-Magazine All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed without credit..

Each October, the temperature in Negril gets just a little bit hotter when the gorgeous men of Mr. Caribbean International descend on Hedonism II for a week of remarkable entertainment and thrilling excitement. You will not want to miss some of the world’s finest Caribbean men as they compete in fitness, modelling, talent and public speaking. The first competition of its kind in the Caribbean, the 12-year old event never disappoints. With statuesque physiques and the most charming personalities, the delegates treat their guests to an unforgettable week in pure paradise. HIGHLIGHTS OF THE WEEK: - Action-Filled Pool Parties - Blind Dates - Adventurous Excursions - Sexy Beach Games - MCI Grand Finale & After party - MCI Fitness Challenge The completion will run from October 6-13, 2014 ................................................................................................................................ Copyright 2014 Caribbean E-Magazine All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed without credit..