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How to Host the Perfect Friendsgiving

Friendsgiving is a cherished holiday tradition that allows friends to come together, share good food, and express gratitude. Unlike Thanksgiving with family, Friendsgiving offers a more relaxed vibe, where everyone can pitch in, bring their favorite dishes, and create new memories. Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you plan a Friendsgiving to remember.


How to Host the Perfect Friendsgiving

1. Set the Date and Time

  • Pick a Date: Most Friendsgivings are held a week or two before Thanksgiving, so your friends can still spend the holiday with family if they want.

  • Send Out Invitations: Once you have a date in mind, send invites through text, social media, or an e-vite. Be clear about the time, especially if you want guests to arrive with dishes that need to stay warm.


2. Create a Potluck-Style Menu

  • Organize the Menu: To make it easier on the host and ensure a variety of dishes, a potluck-style Friendsgiving is a fantastic option. Assign different dishes to your guests: appetizers, sides, mains, desserts, and beverages. This way, the burden doesn’t fall on one person.

  • Use a Shared Document: Use a Google Doc or a meal-planning app where everyone can add what they’re bringing. This helps avoid duplicates and keeps everything organized.

  • Classic Dishes: Friendsgiving menus often have a Thanksgiving flair. Here are some ideas:

    • Appetizers: Deviled eggs, cheese platters, veggie trays.

    • Sides: Mashed potatoes, stuffing, mac and cheese, roasted vegetables.

    • Mains: Turkey, ham, or a veggie main for any vegetarian friends.

    • Desserts: Pumpkin pie, apple pie, or any seasonal sweets.

    • Drinks: Wine, cider, cocktails, and non-alcoholic options for variety.


3. Set the Scene with Festive Decor

  • Pick a Theme or Color Scheme: Whether it’s rustic autumn, cozy boho, or modern minimalistic, choose a color palette to guide your decorations.

  • Table Setting: Use a nice tablecloth or runner, and add some seasonal touches like mini pumpkins, candles, and fall leaves. Name cards and place settings add a personal touch.

  • Create a Cozy Atmosphere: Set up soft lighting with string lights or candles and put on a Friendsgiving-themed playlist. You could even include background music with a fall or cozy theme.


4. Plan for Dietary Needs and Preferences

  • Ask About Allergies: When inviting friends, ask about food allergies and dietary preferences. Make sure there’s something for everyone to enjoy, from meat-eaters to vegetarians or vegans.

  • Label the Dishes: If guests have different dietary restrictions, label each dish with its ingredients or any specific dietary tags like “gluten-free” or “vegan.”


5. Organize Activities and Icebreakers

  • Write a Gratitude Note: Encourage guests to write down something they’re thankful for and share it before or after the meal.

  • Friendsgiving Games: Try games like “Two Truths and a Lie” or a Friendsgiving-themed trivia. You could also have a photo booth setup with props to capture memories.

  • Secret Santa Prep: Since Friendsgiving often falls before the holidays, use the opportunity to draw names for a Secret Santa gift exchange if your group does one.


6. Enjoy and Go with the Flow

  • Serve in Waves: Avoid the hassle of reheating dishes by serving appetizers and salads first. Then, transition to the main course when everything’s ready.

  • Savor the Moment: Don’t stress if things aren’t perfect. Friendsgiving is about celebrating friendship, not perfection. Relax, chat, and enjoy the company.


7. Clean-Up Tips

  • Delegate Clean-Up Tasks: Don’t hesitate to ask for help with clean-up. Friendsgiving is a group effort, so ask a few friends to stay and lend a hand.

  • Send Home Leftovers: Have some extra containers on hand for guests to take leftovers. It’s a great way to avoid food waste and send everyone home with a little something to remember the night.


Friendsgiving is a heartwarming way to celebrate friendship, food, and gratitude. By organizing in advance, encouraging contributions, and setting a cozy scene, you’ll create an unforgettable experience for everyone. So, gather your favorite people, enjoy the delicious spread, and make it a Friendsgiving to remember!


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